A monthly notebook of disturbances.https://whatsmyproblem.blog/https://whatsmyproblem.blog/posts/003-naming-hypocrisy/https://whatsmyproblem.blog/posts/003-naming-hypocrisy/I have begun to suspect that lucidity, in my case, is a kind of comfortable furniture I have arranged around the problem so I do not have to step over it.Fri, 01 May 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://whatsmyproblem.blog/posts/002-kindness-as-contempt/https://whatsmyproblem.blog/posts/002-kindness-as-contempt/When I am gentlest with someone, it is usually because I have already decided, somewhere underneath the gentleness, that they cannot bear the truth — and that decision is the cruellest thing in the room.Wed, 01 Apr 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://whatsmyproblem.blog/posts/001-cage-door-open/https://whatsmyproblem.blog/posts/001-cage-door-open/The cage is not the problem. The cage has always been open. The problem is the man inside the cage, who has, over the years, become quite attached to the bars.Sun, 01 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT